Why are we scared of lesbianism? - PHOTO

I know someone who is female and straight, never had the thought of liking women before and only fancied men, but one time, just one time, she developed feelings for a woman and this woman only.Does that mean she's bisexual, probably not, it just means she had a connection with someone.Of course, with men, they love it. The idea of girl on girl action is the ultimate fantasy.And many of them dream of having a threesome with two members of the fairer sex at once.Yet their vision of lesbianism is largely an idealistic one invented by movies and top shelf mags.Sorry fellas, but two horny big-boobed prom queen blondes going at it in the locker room while lathering each other up is not how gay people go about their day.Personally, I think we've moved on with the time anyway, being straight/bi/gay – as well as anything and everything in between – shouldn't mean anything.It's the person who you fall for, their soul, their heart, their personality – not their gender.I love going to gay bars, mainly because I don't have to worry about lechy guys trying it on, but also because they are some of funniest nights and no one gives a s***.Everyone is just having fun and there is no pretentiousness at all. I love it.So, a bit of advice for you guys, remember when you say under your breath to us, 'Oh, is it that time of the month again?' Trust me, you won't get a nice reply.Best thing is to get us loads of chocolate, keep quiet and bugger off out.I haven't personally been with another woman, I have my best friends who I love dearly, but I don't have the urge to take them to bed. But this doesn't mean that if I met a girl one day that I did feel a connection with, well, I wouldn't rule it out.I just haven't met anyone like that yet, so for now, I'll stick with the blokes.We need to learn not be prudish about this subject and accept people for their choices, we should fall for whoever we have a connection with and whoever makes us happy.That's the main point in life, isn't it? To be happy and free from judgement.(dailystar.co.uk)Bakudaily.Az